Breaking Free from the Approval Trap

Breaking Free from the Approval Trap

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Galatians 1:10 (NIV)

Am I now trying to win the approval of human beings, or of God? Or am I trying to please people? If I were still trying to please people, I would not be a servant of Christ.

Today, we confront the approval trap—a relentless cycle of seeking validation from others. This trap often ensnares us through our inner critic, driven by the insatiable desire for approval. Breaking free from this cycle is essential because it profoundly impacts our relationship with God.

When we diligently seek approval from sources other than God, we unknowingly place ourselves in service to a different master. This can lead to a painful division within us—a feeling of being torn between two allegiances. In such moments, we may experience resentment or frustration when God’s guidance challenges our approval-seeking mindset.

Breaking free from this approval trap begins with a profound realization, one echoed in Galatians 1:10: Are we trying to win the approval of human beings, or of God? Are we seeking to please people, or are we committed to serving Christ?

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Recall a recent situation in which you found yourself prioritizing the approval of others over your devotion to God. Reflect on how this affected your choices and the consequences that followed.

How can you actively work toward breaking free from this approval trap and aligning your actions with your commitment to serve Christ?